The Girl Next Door
lanagasm
Great Falls, Montana | TS/TV/TG Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I have red hair and blue eyes. The rest changes without notice. If you see me online and say hi, I'll likely say hi back. This is just polite manners. If you happen to say something meaningful or interesting after that, you'll likely capture my interest for the moment. If you continue to be a constant source of inspiration, wit, humour, or generally a fun person to hang around, you'll gain my friendship for life. I'm like that. I don't have a million friends, but the ones I do have, I keep.
__________________________________________________
So, I was sitting at my piano today playing Journey's "Don't Stop Believing" and scaring the neighbors by unashamedly singing along at the top of my lungs and I thought to myself this would be a whole lot more fun with someone else here to screech along with me. How awesome does this sound? You and me in a Halo death tournament match, loser has to do the dishes after supper. Winner has to serenade the loser on piano/guitar/banjo/bagpipes/whatever for as long as it takes with cheesy 80s hair band songs. Or what about this? We drop off the kids at the sitters so we can go to the symphony to hear Yo Yo Ma performing George Gershwin. We're already running kinda late, but you look just so handsome in your suit and tie that I can't seem to keep my hands off you. We end up missing most of the first half of the performance, but manage to catch Rhapsody in Blue at the tail end, mussed up hair notwithstanding. Or maybe something simpler like this? Movie night, a huge bottle of Dr Pepper, a batch of my homemade nachos, a copy of Zombieland, and my head snuggled up resting on your shoulder.
__________________________________________________
The man I want will inspire me. Comfort me. Be my rock and my confidante. He will be the man I can't keep my eyes off of when he walks in the room. He and I will laugh together and cry together. We will stand against the world together, and he'll know that I will always ALWAYS be on his side.
__________________________________________________
Music is the core of me. It will always be my first love. But I want to share that love with my guy. Are you him? My nerd in shining armor? Do you even exist? I think you do.
__________________________________________________
One final note, (and I can't believe I actually have to put this here but apparently it is in fact necessary to say) the term "shemale", being a word invented by the porn industry, is generally considered by most transsexual men and women to be a highly offensive pejorative term. Using it to describe me is not only inaccurate, it implies that the person using it views me as some sort of hodge-podge mix between male and female, and also implies that I am in some way connected to the sex industry. I am neither of these things. I am a bright, intelligent woman who is highly respected as an artist and a teacher. I am well-known and generally liked in my community. I also happen to have been born with an irregular birth defect of sorts. Sorry if that bursts anyone's bubble. I just think it's important for you know know who I am... and more importantly perhaps, who I am NOT.I am comfortable with who I am. I have been living full-time in the female social role for 10+ years now. It's not a sex thing for me, it's who I am. If you can't see me in public, I can't see you in private! Lets go hang out at Starbucks, drink some of the foulest coffee in the known universe, and take a chance on some interesting conversation.
__________________________________________________
One last thing... no short men please. I know. Its horrible of me to say. Its shallow and blah blah blah. You're right. Still. I hate hate hate HATE looking *down* into my man's eyes. And if you happen to be taller than me? Hubba Hubba! Nothing sexier than having to stand on tiptoes to kiss ya!
__________________________________________________
So, I was sitting at my piano today playing Journey's "Don't Stop Believing" and scaring the neighbors by unashamedly singing along at the top of my lungs and I thought to myself this would be a whole lot more fun with someone else here to screech along with me. How awesome does this sound? You and me in a Halo death tournament match, loser has to do the dishes after supper. Winner has to serenade the loser on piano/guitar/banjo/bagpipes/whatever for as long as it takes with cheesy 80s hair band songs. Or what about this? We drop off the kids at the sitters so we can go to the symphony to hear Yo Yo Ma performing George Gershwin. We're already running kinda late, but you look just so handsome in your suit and tie that I can't seem to keep my hands off you. We end up missing most of the first half of the performance, but manage to catch Rhapsody in Blue at the tail end, mussed up hair notwithstanding. Or maybe something simpler like this? Movie night, a huge bottle of Dr Pepper, a batch of my homemade nachos, a copy of Zombieland, and my head snuggled up resting on your shoulder.
__________________________________________________
The man I want will inspire me. Comfort me. Be my rock and my confidante. He will be the man I can't keep my eyes off of when he walks in the room. He and I will laugh together and cry together. We will stand against the world together, and he'll know that I will always ALWAYS be on his side.
__________________________________________________
Music is the core of me. It will always be my first love. But I want to share that love with my guy. Are you him? My nerd in shining armor? Do you even exist? I think you do.
__________________________________________________
One final note, (and I can't believe I actually have to put this here but apparently it is in fact necessary to say) the term "shemale", being a word invented by the porn industry, is generally considered by most transsexual men and women to be a highly offensive pejorative term. Using it to describe me is not only inaccurate, it implies that the person using it views me as some sort of hodge-podge mix between male and female, and also implies that I am in some way connected to the sex industry. I am neither of these things. I am a bright, intelligent woman who is highly respected as an artist and a teacher. I am well-known and generally liked in my community. I also happen to have been born with an irregular birth defect of sorts. Sorry if that bursts anyone's bubble. I just think it's important for you know know who I am... and more importantly perhaps, who I am NOT.I am comfortable with who I am. I have been living full-time in the female social role for 10+ years now. It's not a sex thing for me, it's who I am. If you can't see me in public, I can't see you in private! Lets go hang out at Starbucks, drink some of the foulest coffee in the known universe, and take a chance on some interesting conversation.
__________________________________________________
One last thing... no short men please. I know. Its horrible of me to say. Its shallow and blah blah blah. You're right. Still. I hate hate hate HATE looking *down* into my man's eyes. And if you happen to be taller than me? Hubba Hubba! Nothing sexier than having to stand on tiptoes to kiss ya!
Sign
Libra
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Slim
My Height Is
5' 11 (1.8 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Separated
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
Yes
My Best Feature Is
Butt
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
My Hair Is
Auburn / Red
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Art / Music / Literature
My Job Title Is
Professional pianist / Piano techer
I Make This Much In A Year
$15,000USD To $29,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Shy, Friendly, Flirtatious
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Music, Movies, Games, Dining, Cooking, Gardening, Playing Cards
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be
If I told you, it wouldn't be ideal. :)
I've Always Wanted To Try
I want to feel the sunrise on my shoulders in Paris. I want to hear a symphony in Rome. I want to get completely lost in Tokyo. I want to kiss someone I love in Glasgow.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Goofy, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Once A Week
My Political Views Are
Libertarian
My Goal In Life Is
Transition, transition, transition. And then after I start living, I can have other goals.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Dramas, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock, Pop, Classical, I'm A Recording Artist, Blues, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
Fantasy, Fiction, Humor, Mathematics, Music, Mystery, Poetry, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is
Anything musical
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Money, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?
Know who you are. Take the time to know who I am. The rest is details.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Date, Intimate, Committed, Marriage, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage