Just looking for sweet friends...

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Hi, everyone. I am a 41 year old Male to Female transgender woman. I first want to say that I'm absolutely not interested in anything sexual here. Once upon a time, while playing out my forced, male role, I was attracted to cis females only. The bitter end of an 11 year marriage... plus age... topped off with hormone replacement therapy... has rendered me asexual as of November, 2013. My ex wife was my first, and only ever, sexual partner. That intimacy brought me 2 beautiful and devoted children. I said all of that to say this. I am only... only... only... looking for friends. Male OR female. Whether male or female, I am what I recently read termed as bi-romantic. Meaning... I have zero desire for sex... and, am actually a bit repulsed by kissing. (maybe it's a psychological wall that I simply need to tear down. I just don't know.) But... I often imagine cuddling. I ache for it. Massages. Playing with each others hair. Snuggling into long, restful naps. Watching movies in bed. I have so much affection to give... and, I also need a lot of it, too. But, I honestly fear that no one is out there who would be pleased with that. A person who's cuddly and deeply affectionate, but, cannot offer anything sexually. I feel like if I had my correct female parts... maybe. Again, it may be a wall that I've put up, with the wrong parts playing a role in. Anyway... besides cuddles... here's what else I give to everyone around me. My full attention. When I'm talking to people or visiting... I either leave my phone in my apartment, or I take it with me, but it's on do not disturb, except for my 2 kids being able to get thru. Wherever possible, I do prefer the same kind of attentiveness. Kindness. By that, I mean... if we had plans for a fun evening... and, you get too sick for that... I don't berate you or say that you ruined our evening. I go into nurse mode, which is my missed calling, and feel so happy that it is me who gets to be with you in that condition, so that I have someone to take care of. Someone who needs me. I've had a lot of my family hurt me, since my divorce. I've often been made to feel like a problem, if I ever need something such as being driven to a doctor appointment. I get shunned. A lot. Not related to being trans. FOR being trans, I do get Thanksgiving and Christmas family events hidden from me. It's an unspoken rule. What I'm saying is... someone being sick or whiny or clingy for a weekend doesn't bother me. In fact, I thrive on feeling needed. I'm probably making zero sense here. LoL Loyalty. If we're put somewhere, and you encounter one of those jerk friends or relatives who puts you down or takes a joke too far and is obviously hurting your feelings... I don't betray you and join in on their side. I remain graceful, and don't get into an argument with them. But, I make it clear with my silence, and my head against your shoulder while I hold your hand... that I am NOT amused, and that I am on YOUR side. Humor. This writing cannot convey my sense of humor. But... I can assure you, I will constantly keep you laughing. In fact, I have to keep certain humor to myself, unless I find that you can be as messed up in the humor department as I am.

Хороскопски знак

Девица

Моје грађа

Мали вишак килограма

Висина

180 цм

Боја очију

Боје лешника

Раса

Белац/Белкиња

Брачно стање

Разведен/Разведена

Имам децу

Да - понекад код куће

Желим децу

Да

Моја најбоља карактеристика

Усне

Боја косе

Тамно плава

Имам

Немам кућне љубимце

Спреман/Спремна за селидбу

Да

Образовни ниво

Факултет, али га нисам завршио/завршила

Мој радни однос

Незапослен/незапосленаа

Моја струка

Забава/Медији

Мој годишњи приход

Мање од $14.999USD

Живим

Сам(а)

Код куће

Понекад ми дођу пријатељи

Пушим

Одвикавам се од пушења

Пијем

Не

У средњој школи био/била сам

Повучен(а)

У друштву сам

Уздржан/уздржана, Стидљив(а), Посматрач, Нисам друштвен(а), Дружељубив/дружељубива, Занимљив(а), Волим да флертујем, Чудан/чудна

Моја интересовања и хобији

Религија/Духовност, Породица, Вечере, Фотографија, Читање, Уметност и занат, Учење, Музика, ТВ, Филмове, Интернет, Позориште, Путовања, Кување, Камповање, Волонтирање, Рачунари, Шопинг

Како замишљам провод

Дружење с пријатељима, Шопинг, Волим да останем код куће, Биоскоп, Блеја, Спавање, Читање, Облачење, Игре, ТВ, Посета музеју

Мој савршен први састанак

Meet before dinner... sit and have a long and informative talk after dinner... ride around talking... if things go well, maybe end the night with non sexual cuddling... falling asleep talking...

Одувек сам желео/желела да

Camping. I've honestly never been.

Моји пријатељи кажу да сам

Дружељубив/дружељубива, Моји пријатељи желе бити ја, Кул, Савршен(а), Чудан/чудна, Блесав/блесава

Религија

Хришћанин/Хришћанка

Идем у цркву

Никада

Мој животни циљ

To overcome all of my obstacles... such as my social anxiety and depression, and get back to myself, feeling productive again.

Мој смисао за хумор

Пренаглашен, Паметан, Сиров/саркастичан, Дружељубив/дружељубива, Блесав/блесава

На ТВ-у увек гледам

Цртане филмове, Документарце, Драме, Наставне програме, Филмове, Сапунице, Репризе програма

У биоскопу увек гледам

Комедије, Љубавне, Драме, Документарце, Породица, Хороре

Увек слушам

Кантри, Поп, Класична

Увек читам

Вести, Аутобиографије, Биографије, Класике, Стрипове, Здравствене, Историјске, Хороре, Смисао за хумор, Наставне програме, Музика, Мистерије, Филозофске, Поезија, Сатире, Љубавне, Натприродно

Како замишљам добру забаву

People watching... never a dull moment with that!!

Шта Вас привлачи?

Домишљатост, Моћ, Спонтаност, Чудноватост, Осећајност, Саосећајност, Смисао за хумор, Изглед, Брижљивост, Интелигенција, Пасивност

Шта тражите?

Affection... Attention... To be wanted, and needed, for the very things that others didn't appreciate about me...

Какву везу тражите?

Пријатељ на Интернету, Пријатељ, Састанак, Интима, Посвећеност, Брак